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My dogs
On Sunday, March 21, 1999, two lost dogs brought
about a change to my life as they wandered in and out of a K-mart at
Ames and Lapalco on the Westbank. I followed them through a
neighborhood behind the store with aspirations of finding the owner,
but I didn’t. A lady who lived in the area put the two in her yard
and posted signs as well as running an ad in the lost and found
section of the paper. No owner responded.
I called each day to check upon their status, and although the lady
received some calls, none came from the owner. Later that week, on
Thursday, March 25, I returned to her house, and for nearly nine
years, I found myself as the proud companion of two of the most
loving dogs that I’ve ever known. Both had massive energy and
playfulness, and neither had an ounce of meanness.
Throughout the years, we walked together in four neighborhoods. Our
strolls took us out early in the morning, often before six, and then
usually in the evening hours. We enjoyed the near half mile path
outside the condominium, the place where we first lived to together.
We spent two stints at Mom’s house, the first for about three or
four months following my left hip surgery and then for about one
month following Hurricane Katrina. That storm sent us around for
sure. We evacuated for two days in Jimmy Davis State Park and then
moved into my cousin Donna’s home for a month. Upon returning to
Jefferson Parish, we humbly accepted the gracious offer to live with
Heath and Tricia, newlyweds of three weeks at the time Katrina hit.
After living with Mom on both occasions, the dogs and I came to this
neighborhood, where at times we walked around the block and at other
times they played in the backyard. Before the storm, we lived
together in a two-bedroom home, and since February 2006, we shared
close quarters in the FEMA trailer.
I had always hoped that one day we would share a new home on this
property, but that wish will not come true. On Wednesday, December
19, 2007, I returned from work to find Lucky, the smaller of the two
beagle girls, dead in her kennel with her sister standing over her.
When I had opened the trailer door, an odor prevailed, and I knew
something wasn’t right. Through the kindness of my next door
neighbor, Lucky was buried in my backyard.
In early January 2008 as I petted Candy, I noticed something
different about her right shoulder. A tumor had formed and grew
rapidly. Within a few days, we visited the vet, who prescribed an
altered diet and some medicine to keep the lemon-sized tumor from
growing; however, within a week of the January 15th appointment,
several smaller growths had appeared. Although maintaining the diet
and medicinal regimen, Candy quickly weakened as the cancer spread.
On Mardi Gras morning, I awakened to find her unable to place much
weight on her hind left leg; therefore, I remained home with her
during the city’s festivities. On Ash Wednesday, I decided to not
let my beautiful dog deteriorate and suffer any more. I phone Doc at
his home and made plans to see him Thursday morning.
During that last day, Candy and I sat in the sun and let the day
pass on. On Ash Wednesday evening, Candy had the opportunity to say
goodbye to the next door neighbors and their dog, Tess. David came
to dig a burial site next to Lucky, and while he did that, I took
Candy for a drive. She loved donut holes. During the early hours of
the night, I threw a blanket on the floor and lay by her side before
putting her on a pillow at the foot of the bed, where I thought she
would stay for the remainder. But she wouldn’t have that. Ever since
Lucky’s death, Candy climbed into bed each night. She wanted that
again. Maybe she knew it would be her last time. I gathered her up,
and she placed herself near me a while. Eventually she went to her
place and sprawled out. I held her paw during different intervals,
for I woke often. In the morning, she made her way outside before
coming back for her breakfast and her last donut hole.
Mom arrived slightly after eight in the morning. I got myself
cleaned and dressed, doing those slowly. Mom held Candy during the
short, but slow drive. Candy knew; her eyes showed it. Doc, in his
kind way, explained the procedure and then gave us time to spend a
few moments together. Candy moved her nose from Mom’s face to mine,
and I held her and talked to her about our walks and our camping
trips. I told that she would join her sister, Lucky, again. The
sedative relaxed her beyond coherence, and the final injection took
effect in less than one minute. I held her throughout.
Some have said that I gave them a loving life while others wanted
them for breeding and hunting purpose, and that may be the case.
They gave this single man a sense of family in the home. They loved
me without conditions, as dogs so often do. Less than two months
ago, I had two wonderful dogs. Today, I have loving memories and a
picture of them on my fridge. Some day, I figure to have other dogs
in my life, but not yet. Maybe when the new house gets done I can
consider that.
For now, Candy and Lucky are at peace together in the backyard and
resting side-by-side as they so often did during their lifetime. And
that’s what truly matters.
~ Doug Moreau
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